What is the difference between extrañar and echar de menos?

Both mean 'to miss' in the emotional sense, and they are fully interchangeable in meaning. Extrañar dominates in Latin America, while echar de menos is the traditional choice in Spain. Using either will be understood everywhere, though you may sound out of place regionally.

How do I say 'I miss you' in Spanish?

In Latin America, say Te extraño. In Spain, say Te echo de menos. Both carry the same warmth and emotional weight. Add mucho for emphasis: Te extraño mucho.

When would I use fallar versus perder for 'miss'?

Use fallar when missing a target, shot, or mark—anything involving aim or accuracy. Use perder when missing something time-bound, like a bus, flight, deadline, or opportunity. The distinction parallels 'fail to hit' versus 'fail to catch.'

Spanish vocabulary · Beginner

MISS in Spanish: EXTRAÑAR

Written by Sofia Ramirez, Lead Spanish Curriculum Editor · Reviewed May 2026

Extrañar · verb · eks-trah-NYAR

English uses 'miss' for longing, for failing to hit a target, for losing a bus, and as a title for young women—and Spanish splits each meaning among different words. Extrañar (or echar de menos in Spain) captures the emotional ache of missing someone or something. Fallar covers missing a shot or target, perder handles missing a bus or deadline, and señorita serves as the formal title. Unpacking this single English word into its Spanish counterparts is a revealing exercise in how languages organize meaning differently.

eks-trah-NYAR

Te extraño mucho desde que te fuiste.

I miss you a lot since you left.

Miss in Spanish: Quick Reference

Below are the most common Spanish words for miss, with pronunciation and regional usage notes.

Spanish	English	Pronunciation	Region / Register
extrañar	miss	eks-trah-NYAR	Default, widely understood
echar de menos	miss		Spain
señorita	miss		title for a young woman
fallar	miss		to miss a target/shot
perder	miss		to miss a bus/train

How Native Speakers Use Extrañar

Real example sentences across three contexts you'll actually run into.

Emotional Missing

Extraño la comida de mi abuela.

I miss my grandmother's cooking.

Extrañar expresses longing or nostalgia for people, places, or experiences.

Spain Variant

Echo de menos los veranos en la playa.

I miss the summers at the beach.

Echar de menos is the preferred expression in Spain for emotional missing.

Missing a Target

El arquero falló el tiro en el último segundo.

The archer missed the shot in the last second.

Fallar means to miss a target, goal, or attempt.

Avoid These Mistakes When Using Extrañar

Using extrañar for a missed bus

Incorrect: Extrañé el autobús.

Correct: Perdí el autobús.

Extrañar conveys emotional longing. For missing a bus, train, or flight, the correct verb is perder (to lose/miss).

Confusing señorita with extrañar

Incorrect: Quiero señorita a mi familia.

Correct: Quiero extrañar… / Extraño a mi familia.

Señorita is a title (Miss), not a verb. The verb for missing someone emotionally is extrañar.

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Common Questions About Miss in Spanish

What is the difference between extrañar and echar de menos?: Both mean 'to miss' in the emotional sense, and they are fully interchangeable in meaning. Extrañar dominates in Latin America, while echar de menos is the traditional choice in Spain. Using either will be understood everywhere, though you may sound out of place regionally.
How do I say 'I miss you' in Spanish?: In Latin America, say Te extraño. In Spain, say Te echo de menos. Both carry the same warmth and emotional weight. Add mucho for emphasis: Te extraño mucho.
When would I use fallar versus perder for 'miss'?: Use fallar when missing a target, shot, or mark—anything involving aim or accuracy. Use perder when missing something time-bound, like a bus, flight, deadline, or opportunity. The distinction parallels 'fail to hit' versus 'fail to catch.'