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How to Say Calm Down in Spanish
Cálmate · verb · KAHL-mah-teh
The most direct way to say 'calm down' in Spanish is 'cálmate' (informal) or 'cálmese' (formal). The reflexive verb 'calmarse' means to calm oneself, and the command form is what you use to tell someone to settle down. Alternatives like 'tranquilízate' and the interjection 'tranquilo/a' are equally popular.
Cálmate is pronounced KAHL-mah-teh. The accent on the first syllable makes it an esdrújula word, giving it a crisp, emphatic sound when spoken as a command.
Cálmate, todo va a salir bien.
Calm down, everything is going to be fine.
calm down in Spanish: Quick Reference
Below are the most common Spanish words for calm down, with pronunciation and regional usage notes.
| Spanish | English | Pronunciation | Region / Register |
|---|---|---|---|
| cálmate | calm down | KAHL-mah-teh | Default, widely understood |
| tranquilízate | calm down | emphasizes becoming tranquil | |
| calmarse | calm down | infinitive form | |
| tranquilo | calm down | used as an interjection meaning 'take it easy' |
How Native Speakers Use Cálmate
Real example sentences across three contexts you'll actually run into.
Comforting someone
Tranquilízate, el examen no es tan difícil como piensas.
Calm down, the exam isn't as hard as you think.
Reassuring someone who is stressed.
Parent to child
Cálmate y cuéntame qué pasó.
Calm down and tell me what happened.
A parent speaking to an upset child.
Between friends
Tranquilo, hermano, no pasa nada.
Calm down, man, it's no big deal.
Casual reassurance using the interjection tranquilo.
Avoid These Mistakes When Using Cálmate
Missing reflexive pronoun
Incorrect: Calma, por favor.
Correct: Cálmate, por favor.
While 'calma' can work as a noun (calm), the command to calm down requires the reflexive form 'cálmate' to direct the action at the person.
Formality mismatch
Incorrect: Cálmate, señor. (to a stranger or authority)
Correct: Cálmese, señor.
Cálmate is informal (tú). For formal situations with strangers or elders, use 'cálmese' (usted).
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Common Questions About calm down in Spanish
- What is the difference between cálmate and tranquilízate?
- Cálmate is a direct command to calm down from an agitated state, while tranquilízate emphasizes reaching a state of tranquility — both are interchangeable in most situations, though tranquilízate sounds slightly gentler.
- Can you just say 'tranquilo' to mean 'calm down'?
- Using 'tranquilo' (masculine) or 'tranquila' (feminine) as a standalone interjection is one of the most common and natural ways to tell someone to relax or take it easy in casual conversation.
- How do you say 'I need to calm down' in Spanish?
- The reflexive construction 'necesito calmarme' expresses this, with the pronoun 'me' attached to the infinitive to indicate you are calming yourself down.