French grammar · Intermediate

Où as a Relative Pronoun: Where, When, and the Accent That Changes Everything

Où with a grave accent is the relative pronoun that stands in for a place or a moment: la ville où j'habite, le jour où tu es parti. English switches to when for the time use, but French keeps où throughout, and the accent is what separates it from ou meaning or.

C'est la ville où je suis née.

That's the town where I was born.

What it is

Où joins a clause to a noun that names a place or a point in time. It works because both are locations as far as French grammar is concerned: a shop and a Tuesday are equally somewhere you can situate an event. That is why one pronoun covers what English splits between where and when.

Je me souviens du jour où nous nous sommes rencontrés. — I remember the day we met.

How to spot it

If the noun before the clause answers the question où ? or quand ?, the relative pronoun is où. If it answers qui ? or quoi ?, you need qui, que or dont instead.

  • le café où on se retrouve — the café where we meet
  • l'année où il a déménagé — the year he moved
  • le tiroir où j'ai rangé les clés — the drawer where I put the keys
  • au moment où tu as appelé — just as you called

Ou without an accent means or and joins two options. Où with the accent means where. The accent is not decorative: it is the whole difference between the two words.

Relative Pronoun Ou Quick Reference

Où across places and moments

AntecedentExampleEnglish
a town or countryle pays où j'ai vécuthe country where I lived
a building or roomla pièce où il travaillethe room he works in
a container or surfacela boîte où sont les photosthe box the photos are in
a day or datele jour où elle est néethe day she was born
a periodà l'époque où on écrivait des lettresback when people wrote letters
a momentau moment où la porte s'est ouvertethe moment the door opened
origin, with dela ville d'où il vientthe town he comes from

Common Relative Pronoun Ou Examples in French

Où doing the work of where, when, and in which:

Places

Voici l'appartement où j'ai grandi.
This is the flat where I grew up.
Le restaurant où nous avons dîné a fermé.
The restaurant where we had dinner has closed.
Il y a un banc où on peut s'asseoir.
There's a bench where you can sit down.
Le tiroir où tu cherches est vide.
The drawer you're looking in is empty.

Où covers in which, on which and at which as well as where, which is why it so often replaces a heavier lequel phrase.

Times

Le jour où j'ai reçu ta lettre, il neigeait.
The day I got your letter, it was snowing.
L'année où nous étions à Rome fut la meilleure.
The year we spent in Rome was the best.
Au moment où je sortais, le téléphone a sonné.
Just as I was leaving, the phone rang.
À l'époque où il enseignait encore, tout était différent.
Back when he was still teaching, everything was different.

This is the use English speakers miss, because English says the day that or the day when. French uses où after any noun of time.

D'où for Origin

Le village d'où elle vient est dans les Alpes.
The village she comes from is in the Alps.
La colline d'où on voit toute la baie.
The hill you can see the whole bay from.
Il n'a pas expliqué d'où venait cet argent.
He didn't explain where that money came from.
D'où l'importance de vérifier.
Hence the importance of checking.

D'où also works as a connector meaning hence or which is why, introducing a consequence.

Où With No Antecedent

Assieds-toi là où tu veux.
Sit wherever you like.
Partout où il passe, il laisse une impression.
Everywhere he goes, he leaves an impression.
Je ne sais pas où elle est allée.
I don't know where she went.
Va où bon te semble.
Go wherever you please.

Là où and partout où give French its wherever, and the où in an indirect question is the same word in another job.

How Où Works as a Relative Pronoun

It absorbs a preposition, it covers time as well as place, and it is invariable.

Où Already Contains the Preposition

La ville où j'habite is short for la ville dans laquelle j'habite. Où swallows the preposition along with the noun, which is why nothing is left dangling at the end of the clause the way English leaves in.

La maison où nous vivons est ancienne.

The house we live in is old.

où = dans lequel, sur lequel, à laquelle.

Time Nouns Take Où, Not Quand

Quand introduces a clause of time on its own, but it cannot attach to a noun. Once there is an antecedent — le jour, l'année, le moment, l'instant — the relative pronoun has to be où.

Le soir où il a téléphoné, j'étais sortie.

The evening he rang, I was out.

Noun of time + où.

It Never Changes Shape

Où has one form for masculine, feminine, singular and plural, and it does not elide. Only the addition of de in front produces a variant, d'où, meaning from where.

Les pays où l'on parle français sont nombreux.

The countries where French is spoken are numerous.

One form, plus d'où.

The Accent Is the Word

Ou and où are two different words that happen to share three letters. Ou joins alternatives — thé ou café — and où asks or states where. Losing the accent turns one into the other.

Tu préfères le train ou l'avion pour aller là où tu vas ?

Do you prefer the train or the plane to get where you're going?

ou = or, où = where.

Où Is Not for Abstract Nouns

A situation, a case or a manner is not a place, and où sits awkwardly with it. French usually prefers dans lequel or dans laquelle: la situation dans laquelle nous sommes. The one common exception is le cas où.

La position dans laquelle il se trouve est délicate.

The position he's in is a delicate one.

Real places and times take où; abstractions take lequel.

Common Mistakes with Relative Pronoun Ou

Incorrect: Le jour quand je suis arrivé, il faisait chaud. — The day I arrived, it was hot.

Correct: Le jour où je suis arrivé, il faisait chaud. — The day I arrived, it was hot.

Quand cannot follow a noun. Once there is an antecedent of time, French uses où, which is why le jour où and l'année où are fixed patterns.

Incorrect: C'est la ville ou j'ai grandi. — That's the town where I grew up.

Correct: C'est la ville où j'ai grandi. — That's the town where I grew up.

Without the accent the word means or, which turns the sentence into nonsense. The grave accent is what makes it the relative pronoun.

Incorrect: La maison que j'habite dans est vieille. — The house I live in is old.

Correct: La maison où j'habite est vieille. — The house I live in is old.

French never leaves a preposition stranded at the end of a clause. Où already includes the idea of in, so nothing needs to follow the verb.

Incorrect: Prends une veste au cas où il fait froid. — Take a jacket in case it's cold.

Correct: Prends une veste au cas où il ferait froid. — Take a jacket in case it's cold.

Au cas où is followed by the conditional in standard French, because the clause describes a hypothetical rather than a fact.

Fixed Phrases Built on Où

A handful of common expressions bolt a word onto où and change what it does.

Là où and partout où

Adding là or partout gives où an antecedent of its own, producing where as a full clause and wherever. Both keep normal word order after them.

Là où il y a de la volonté, il y a un chemin.
Where there's a will, there's a way.
Partout où je vais, je prends un carnet.
Wherever I go, I take a notebook.
Reste là où tu es.
Stay where you are.

Là où is also the natural translation of whereas when you are contrasting two situations.

Au cas où and le cas où

Au cas où means in case, and it is followed by the conditional, not the present or the subjunctive. This is the one place où attaches to an abstract noun without sounding odd.

Prends un parapluie au cas où il pleuvrait.
Take an umbrella in case it rains.
Je te laisse mon numéro, au cas où.
I'll leave you my number, just in case.
Dans le cas où il refuserait, nous changerions de plan.
Should he refuse, we'd change plan.

The conditional after au cas où is obligatory in careful French: au cas où il viendrait, not au cas où il vient.

D'où as a connector

Placed at the start of a clause, d'où introduces the consequence of what has just been said. It is followed by a noun, not a verb.

Le train était annulé, d'où notre retard.
The train was cancelled, hence our delay.
Il n'avait pas dormi, d'où son humeur.
He hadn't slept, which explains his mood.
D'où vient cette idée ?
Where does that idea come from?

This is very common in written argument and a compact alternative to c'est pourquoi.

Relative Pronoun Ou FAQs

What does où mean as a relative pronoun?
Where, and also when. It replaces a place or a moment: la ville où j'habite, le jour où tu es venu. In both cases it also absorbs the preposition, so la table où j'ai posé mes clés means the table I put my keys on.
What is the difference between ou and où?
Ou without an accent means or: thé ou café. Où with a grave accent means where: la ville où je vis. They are different words, and dropping the accent changes the meaning of the sentence rather than just its spelling.
Can I use quand instead of où after a noun?
No. Quand introduces its own time clause (quand il est arrivé, nous mangions) but cannot attach to a noun. After le jour, l'année, le moment or l'époque, the relative pronoun is où.
When should I use dans lequel instead of où?
When the preposition carries meaning that où cannot express — sous laquelle, derrière lequel, pendant lequel — or when the antecedent is abstract: la situation dans laquelle nous sommes. For plain places and times, où is the natural choice.
What does au cas où mean and what tense follows it?
It means in case, and it takes the conditional: prends un parapluie au cas où il pleuvrait. On its own at the end of a sentence, au cas où means just in case: je te laisse mon numéro, au cas où.